Get Your Life Out Of Your Draft Folder

Getting your life out of your drafts’ folder

Last week I looked at the dashboard for this website and noticed 483 published posts and an astonishingly high number of drafted posts, posts that are in various stages of completion, but have never yet seen the light of day.

148 drafts.

That’s almost 31% of the actual published posts. Just sitting there. Unfinished.

That means that almost a quarter of all the posts started…were never completed.

Yep, I got a calculator to quickly figure that out. It stuck in my head, “Almost a 25% failure rate!” Actually, it’s 23.45%, but what are a few percentage points among friends. I suppose I should round down, not up – when figuring out my failure rate. Does it say something about me that I rounded up? Maybe.

I began to wonder if my WordPress draft folder was an appropriate metaphor for my life.

There have been times when I suspect I’d have celebrated a mere 25% failure rate. Is a 75% still a passing grade in school?

I’m competitive. Always have been. I was almost always ashamed – yes, ashamed – if I didn’t hit in the higher 90% range. I didn’t say I always scored that high! I said when I didn’t, I was always ashamed. Always! My mother was never satisfied with anything less than an A.

But it dawned on me that a draft is a bit like an INCOMPLETE in school. It’s not even a grade really. It’s worse. It’s “you never even did the work.” Well, okay…maybe better said, it’s “you never finished the work.”

What’s unfinished in your life?

What are the things that languish in your drafts’ folder?

Are there things in there that belong in the trash? They just need to be deleted because they have no use or potential?

Are there things in there that deserve to be finished? They need time and attention to be completed or more fully developed because they do have value?

Look closely. GET OFF THE SCHNEID.

Me? Man, I’m covered up. I’ve got 148 posts to go through!

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Why Today Is The Day To Stop Sucking

At some point sucking provides no comfort

How do you know you’re sucking at something?

Because there’s no progress. You’re not moving forward and you know it. You may not know why, but that’s not important. Not right now.

Right now, you just need to embrace the truth – the honest reality – that you’re not going anywhere with what you’re doing.

This ain’t workin’

Have you said that to yourself? Then what you’re doing sucks. It’s not working and you know it.

Deep down inside. You really know something needs to change.

You just struggle to figure out what it is.

Well, today, the sucking stops.

Today, you embrace the fact that what you’re doing – what you’ve been doing – isn’t working.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve been failing for a long time, or just a few days. Today it stops.

Why today?

Why not?

 

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Answering Questions From The Audience

Links for today’s show

Podcasts I listen to…well, some of them anyway…

Freakonomics podcast with Stephen J. Dubner and Steve Levitt
Mixergy with Andrew Warner
The Sales Lion is Marcus Sheridan
Marketing Over Coffee with Christopher S. Penn and John Wall
Music Radio Creative with Mike Russell
Ryan On The Radio with Ryan Drean
Internet Business Mastery
Smart Passive Income by Pat Flynn
This Is Your Life by Michael Hyatt
Podcast Answerman is Cliff Ravenscraft

I’m planning a future “podcast review” show talking about the various shows I listen to and why. I just looked inside my iTunes account and I currently have 49 podcasts in my feed, including my own (just to make sure it shows up like it’s supposed to). How many podcasts do you subscribe to?

The last book I read…

Wrecked: When A Broken World Slams Into Your Comfortable Life by Jeff Goins (I’m planning a review of the audiobook soon)

Time Wars: The Primary Conflict in Human History by Jeremy Rifkin

Thanks for listening, watching and reading. Got questions? Email them to me or leave me a voicemail.

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Episode 147 – Brand New Marketing Strategy Stupidity: Idea Extraction

You don’t get to be old bein’ no fool…

That was a line uttered by a Richard Pryor character. It’s not entirely accurate, but it should be. More often than not.

Age should bring about greater wisdom. And experience.

It’s on my mind for at least a few reasons:

1. I’m old. Well, actually, I’m only 55, but that’s much older than most who are podcasting, blogging and producing online content. It’s not older than most business owners though. I know people think the majority of “entrepreneurs” are in their 20’s, but that’s not true. According to the SBA, small business ownership is a quest of more mature people. In fact, look closely and you’ll see a decline in business ownership by younger people. I also remember reading a US Census some years ago (it’s now a decade old) stating that 1 in 3 businesses was owned by a person over 55. Eleven percent were owned by people over 65. I suspect those numbers are now higher!

2. That niche I’ve been looking for is found. I woke up one day (some months ago) and realized, “It’s me!” Mature people. Marc Freedman and Marci Alboher call it an encore career. Those of us who have spent a lifetime in one (or more) endeavor and now we’re looking for our “encore” endeavor. It’s a group that is no stranger to me so I’ve got some plans underway to serve this community.

No, that doesn’t mean if you’re younger that I no longer care about you. If anything, I care more than ever before about the younger people because I think I have something to offer you. Maybe it’s only perspective, but that can be critically important…to all of us. Who doesn’t need an improved, insightful perspective?

Besides, I’m fond of younger people and their outlook on life. Many younger people have a much better perspective of their lives than I had at their age. My peers and I were busy clamoring for financial success. We often sacrificed quality of life because it was a different time and we didn’t have the Internet, which is the primary game-changing tool for today’s income earners! I think these are very exciting times for young and old alike.

3. As I hear modern marketing gurus hold forth I realize that the lessons old heads taught me 40 years ago were old when I learned them. Science changes. Technology changes. People, however, are still very much as they’ve always been, albeit, they are more connected, aware and informed. The psychology of marketing is more quantified than ever before and I suspect that will continue, but we’re all still moved by the things that have always moved us. We’re moved to think, to shop, to buy and to act by very common (and ancient) drivers. The old direct-marketing copywriters of the 1940’s knew it as well as any modern marketing guru. People still point to the genius of P.T. Barnum.

Everything old is new again.

Let me introduce you to a phrase that I began hearing quite a lot a few months ago, “idea extraction.”

It’s brand new. It’s bold. It’s ingenious. And for a few thousand bucks you can learn it.

Or suffer the financial doom sure to come your way if you fail to learn it.

Yes, that’s sarcasm dripping from my lips. Give today’s show a fighting chance and let me enlighten you. Or maybe I can entertain you. Who knows? I might even make you angry. That’s okay. Go ahead. Click play.

Taking unfair advantage of people is so commonplace that sometimes ethical people are tempted to use predatory language and tactics. I’m opposed to it. Period. Rather, I think we must help, teach and share.

Age and experience, coupled with life-long learning can prevent any of us from being a fool. I do not consider myself a fool. I don’t consider you one either!

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