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Yoda's An Idiot. Attempts Do Matter! - GROW GREAT Podcast Episode 4012

4012 Yoda’s An Idiot. Attempts Do Matter!

Yoda's An Idiot. Attempts Do Matter! - GROW GREAT Podcast Episode 4012

Good things come to those who wait.” Many of us have heard that phrase all our lives. It extols the value of patience, but it may also send a subliminal message that overvalues sitting still. And hoping something good comes our way.

Millions of people wake up every day hoping something good might happen to them today. Some estimates report that over 150 million Americans play the lottery every year. Millions of people go to Vegas and various other casinos around the country gambling in hopes of some payday. Games of chance provide unrealistic hope for too many Americans. It’s a high risk, low reward behavior…just like waiting for something good to happen.

Read Sir Ken Robinson’s books – The Element and Finding Your Element. What we create for ourselves is our own responsibility, says Sir Ken. He’s right, of course. And we know that even if we do sometimes whine and complain about our circumstances. We’re not born with a resume. We create one.

Thankfully, we can create a life and then we can re-create a different life. The message of the books is to find something you love and something you’re good at. Loving something isn’t enough. You need to be good at it if you’re going to really find your “element.”

Purpose. Meaning. Those are two words you hear quite a lot from Sir Ken Robinson.

Who Cares What You Think? How Do You Feel?

Brain power is great, but it’s not unique. Neither is data. Or information.

Perspective and context is important. So are feelings. Not emotions, necessarily, but feelings. Deep feelings. How do you feel about what you’re doing? Or what you need to do?

Don’t think about it. Not too much anyway. Just tap into your feelings. What you feel is necessary. Come on, you know. Deep down you really know. You don’t need me or anybody else to tell you.

Sunday afternoon my favorite hockey team, The Dallas Stars, played the Ottawa Senators in Ottawa. Jamie Benn is the Captain of the Dallas Stars. He’s a world-class left winger. Sunday his game sucked. He couldn’t do anything right. One the announcers described his game as being like a blind man, in a dark room, looking for a black hat that wasn’t there. That about summed it up. Later, the same announcer said, “He needs to get out of his own head. Too much focus on what’s going wrong. It just makes it worse.”

You’ve done that before. So have I. Welcome to the human race. A premier professional hockey who loves the game he’s played since he was very little finds himself struggling while in his element. Did Benn suddenly lose his skills? Did he forget how to skate well, or handle a puck? We can eliminate injury or sickness. At least this time. Neither of those is hampering him on Sunday. He’s just in a funk. A major league, professional grade mental funk.

Watching the game, none of us know what Benn is thinking during the game, but the look on his face reveals how he’s feeling. Bad. Frustrated. Struggling.

The announcer’s observation is likely accurate proof that even a top-notch professional athlete can suffer periods of self-doubt and too much focus on what’s going wrong. Jamie will get it turned around. He knows it. His fans know it. He has to do what you have to do when you’re in a funk. Start feeling better about himself, love the process and grab momentum. Can that happen in a flash? Sure. But it may take some time. It does for most of us because we’re not robots. We have to quieten down our head noise and that’s super tough. We have to get in better touch with the feelings that drive us. For Benn, that’s his love and joy for playing professional hockey. It’s the culmination of years of preparation, practice and hard work. He’s a Captain in the NHL. He’s got lots to feel good about…a whole lot less to feel badly about.

What do you love? What do you want?

Don’t sweat about how it’ll happen. Just go make it happen. You’ll figure it out as you go.

Or…

Sit back and think. Then think some more. Mind map it. Write out a strategy. Think about it some more. Edit it. Share it. Talk with others. Get lots of feedback. Then go back and re-craft it again. Tell me how you feel after you do all that.

I’ll tell you how you should feel. Like crap.

Others may tell you how wonderful it is that you’re being so prepared. Or how important it is for you to have these KPIs (key performance indicators). Blah, blah, blah. I don’t care about any of that. Neither should you.

Attempts Matter

Is IT happening or not? If it’s not happening, then what are you going to do about it? Wait and see how things work out?

That’s a stupid tactic. And it’s too slow.

Instead, grab it. You know how to do that. Grab it anywhere you can. When you’re trying to make it happen you can’t be picky about getting just the right hold. Any old hold will have to do. Maybe you’ll find a better grip later on. Maybe you won’t. But right now, the only thing that matters is that you grab it and hang on.

You’re trying to make something happen. Attempts matter.

Some weeks ago some jack wagon gets me on the phone and throws some insane KPI out there saying, “This is what success is going to take.” I’m just listening. It’s not my place to talk him out of his expert opinion, no matter how wrong-headed it may be. You’ll find way more pictures of me with my hand over my mouth because I’m a pretty decent listener. I keep listening. He continues to spew forth more idiotic tactical verbiage. As I hang up the phone I realize he’s one of those people who place no value on attempts. All that matters is success. Success is measurable. There’s a KPI for that.

He’s wrong though. Attempts count. They matter.

I’ve successfully raised kids. I’m watching my grandchildren successfully learn. This movie is happening all over the world in households raising children. Children aren’t succeeding at their first attempt. Some may not succeed after 100 attempts. It depends on what it is. But they’re trying. They’re attempting to learn how to crawl, or walk, or tie their shoes, or ride a bike, or skate. They’re attempting to learn to talk, or sing, or form a complete sentence. Over and over. Day after day. Attempt after attempt.

No parent or grandparent would bark at a small child, “You moron. Can’t you succeed at this? Until you can do it right – completely right – the very first time, then there’s no use in trying.”

But too frequently we operate with that mindset in our careers and in leading our businesses. Some folks find it gratifying to talk about how winning is the only thing that matters. As much as I push the notion of good execution, life has taught me that good execution hinges on attempts. Depending on where you are along the process, the first attempts might not look very good, but it doesn’t matter. Perfect practice sounds good, but it’s wrong. The first attempts are likely anything, but perfect. Besides, if you could practice it perfectly then you’d have it down and your execution would be stellar. We practice in order to get it right (i.e. perfect).

So go out there and take your swings. Give it a go. Make the attempt. Then make another attempt. Ignore people who try to convince you that it doesn’t matter unless you’re winning. They d0n’t know what they’re talking about. They likely haven’t tried nearly enough stuff. My experience has taught me that these same people are among some of the least innovative, creative people, too.

I don’t know about you, but when I look back over the most memorable accomplishments of my professional life – I may could even argue that it’s true in my personal life – the biggest ones resulted from me trying something where I wasn’t dead solid sure of the outcome. I didn’t know if it would work or not. Only one way to find out. Try!

Yoda’s a moron. There is big value in trying. So think of that big thing – or that small thing – that thing you’re not sure if it’ll work or not, but you think it may. Try it and find out.

Randy

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Protecting Your Space Vs. Expanding Your Connections - GROW GREAT Podcast Episode 4011

4011 Protecting Your Space Vs. Expanding Your Connections

Protecting Your Space Vs. Expanding Your Connections - GROW GREAT Podcast Episode 4011

CEOs and other executives spend a lot of time in their office. Or conference rooms. Top leaders largely live in spaces they own, if not literally, then figuratively.

These are spaces we protect. The term “gatekeeper” speaks to how protective we are of our professional space. We guard it. Protect it. If we could, we’d build a moat and install a draw bridge. 1530793_c1dce8a6

Some of us have protected our spaces even better than that. We’re locked down and loaded, allowing in only insiders or people we’ve invited.

But this isn’t so much about physical space as it’s about emotional and psychological space. Head space. There’s a paradox happening. The more we protect our physical space, the more we close in our head space. It’s why new ideas can be so tough to come by. Or why we often feel stuck. Our field of vision is stuck. Our attention is stuck. We’re staring at the same walls, the same decor, the same people. We’ve protected our space and it’s the same day after day.

Groundhog day is every day for many CEOs. Except unlike Bill Murray’s character, we don’t get repeated opportunities to get it right. We just get up day after day battling the same issues, confronting the same problems, unable to see our best opportunities because we’re stuck with this same field of vision (and the same soundstage, hearing the same stuff).

Contrast that with getting out of your office to meet somebody new. Many of us can’t remember the last time we did it. We’ve got our friends, our direct reports, our team members and people associated with us professionally. It’s like we’ve hit our limit of people we’re willing to let in our lives. Maybe we’re introverted and it’s awkward to meet somebody new. Maybe we’re extroverted and we’re meeting lots of new people, but they’re just casual meet ‘n greet encounters without much depth. Or we’re more likely the ambiverts (those folks who are in the middle between introverted and extroverted) who just do what we’ve been doing. Unless something jolts us out of our routine, we stick with it. Doing what we always did.

Enter social media and the magic that happens. Five to ten years ago I rarely encountered a top leader who understood the value of social media. Most would say, “I don’t get Facebook. Why would anybody want to post crap on Facebook?” Of course, these same people didn’t use SMS texting either. Today, they regularly use both and don’t think twice about it. In fact, I regularly encounter CEOs and other top leaders who confess they use their cell phone more for texting than talking. That’s how our culture’s adoption of technology changes our behavior. It happens whether we understand it or not – at first.

Sitting at his desk a CEO may go over to the company’s Facebook page to see if any customers have posted something. Over the course of 15 minutes his behavior is drastically changed. He’s open. He’s available. Maybe he directly responds to people on Twitter, Facebook or Linkedin. He’s open and expansive. All while he’s locked down inside his office.

He logs off and more magic happens. That openness and expansive feeling is gone now. He’s back inside the castle surrounded by the moat. Back to the mindset of life inside the castle. Except this isn’t Camelot and he’s not King Arthur.

Why You Should Get Out Of Your Own Headspace To Create Vacancy

No, I’m not urging you to become an air-head, but I am saying you need some space inside your head (and your life).

One, because your perspective will never change until you do.

The walls inside your fortress are the same, day after day. Same desk. Same furniture. Same decor. All the same.

Have you ever examined your habits? I mean really closely examined them? Well, do that. Jot down what you do the moment you get up in the morning. Do it just until noon. Write down a word or four to describe what you’re doing. Don’t fret about what you’re thinking. Let’s keep it really simple. For now. And don’t pick a day where you’ve got a trip or some other non-typical work schedule. Pick a day like most days.

If you get up at 6am, then you’ll have listed all the things you’ve done – from the smallest to the largest – until noon. Six hours of actions. Six hours of behaviors. For just a single day.

Now look at the list. Carefully think about it. Do you suppose that one day’s list is typical? You know the true answer. Is that day an outlier or does it accurately depict what happens most every day?

Your perspective is driven by what you do. What you do is driven by many auto-pilot decisions. Those auto-pilot decisions are good (mostly) because they prevent you from having to consciously think about all the little decisions you face every single minute and hour. You don’t think about waking up and relieving your bladder. Or brushing your teeth. Or what you’ll wear (even if you make a choice you don’t likely overthink it unless it’s a special day). Or the route you take to work. It’s like you’re sleep walking through life, but you’re awake. Habits drive your behavior and it’s based on your perspective. And it fuels your perspective to continue.

That’s why we mostly think what we think and feel what we feel. Seldom does it change! Many of us aren’t interested in making a change. We’re comfortable with our perspective and our daily habits. Mostly, they’re fine and serve us well. But sometimes benefits turn into problems. A stuck perspective can hurt us by preventing us from considering things we’ve never before considered.

Two, because once you consider a different perspective, you consider new alternatives.

It’s happened to you before. Maybe traffic prevented you from taking your usual route to work. You’ve taken this other route before, but it’s been a long time. As you drive along, it’s a new route and you start looking more closely at the surroundings. You notice a restaurant you’ve never noticed before and wonder if it has always been there, or is it new? You notice it because it’s a restaurant that serves your favorite food. Your attention is heightened because you’re on a different path to work this morning. Curiosity and unfamiliarity are forcing you to pay closer attention. All because your usual route was clogged this morning.

The same thing happens to us personally and professionally. We see different things when we get outside of our head – and our routines. We consider different solutions and see new opportunities. It’s happened to us before, but we mostly resist it. We intentionally surround ourselves with our people – birds of a feather and all that. We talk to the same people, listen to the same stuff, read the same books, pay attention to the same industry experts. Group think overpowers most of us because we do what we do and rarely do anything different.

Three, because once we break outside of our head, we break outside of our space and we expand. It’s called growth.

The most honest CEOs admit they enjoy being comfortable. Who doesn’t? We all want to be comfortable. Only the craziest among us would seek out discomfort. Yet, sometimes momentarily discomfort can pay off bigtime. It happens when we’re sick and go to the doctor. The tests and the treatment may be uncomfortable, but before long they begin to pay off. We feel much better. When you’re sick and feeling badly, you don’t much care if there’s some additional discomfort. Which is why we sometimes work hard to avoid discomfort when we’re not sick. Ask any CEO about an annual physical exam. We hate them. We’re not sick. Why do we need to do this?

Don’t wait until it’s trading one pain for another. Don’t wait until your uncomfortable already. There’s value in embracing a degree (and I emphasize DEGREE) a discomfort so we can expand and grow. It requires intentional decisions to grow. That takes courage, humility and determination. It also takes an openness to admit we can grow into a better version of ourselves. Everybody has room to grow. Doesn’t it make sense that top performers – folks like you (CEOs and other top leaders) – may even have a higher capacity for growth?

CEOs and Top Leaders Are Employee #1 (which means they have the most to gain and the most to give)

It’s not about you being a better human being than everybody else at the office. It’s about a simple business idea: an asset or resource. This one happens to of the human variety. YOU.

Expanding your connections expands your life. It expands your thinking. It provides you valuable changes in perspective. It expands your ability to see opportunities and challenges. Protecting your space has value, but it hinders all that expansion. If you go all in on protection you’ll miss out on all the expansion that’s possible – and profitable.

I regularly ask CEOs about the investment their company makes in growing people. Many give great answers. They’re investing – some heavily – in developing people. I can then ask about their own personal development (professional and personal) and I get a blank stare. It’s quite common to hear a CEO confess they don’t invest much, if anything at all, in themselves. They’ll quickly followup by saying something like, “It’s more important that my people get what they need.”

That’s when I hold up my hands like a side line coach calling a time out. “Wait a minute, wait a minute. What? It’s MORE IMPORTANT that your people get what they need than that you get what you need?”

That usually prompts some rambling and back tracking as they hunt for words to make it not sound as bad it sounds. But it is that bad. And that’s the problem. It’s very bad.

As the top leader YOU are the most important human asset in the company. Again, it doesn’t make you better than anybody else. It’s just true. You’re the most important player on the roster. Like a star quarterback, you have the biggest impact on the performance of the entire team.

Just consider the people you impact. Suppose you have 8 direct reports. Suppose those 8 direct reports each have 3 direct reports. That’s 24 executives or leaders who are directly impacted by YOU. Let’s say there are another 65 employees. We’re now up to 89 people whose professional lives are impacted by YOU. Now let’s add all our suppliers, vendors, partners and others who help us do what we do, but they’re not directly employed by our company. Let’s say you’ve got 35 suppliers, four financial partners and 11 service professionals or other partners. That’s 50 outside partnerships that are impacted by YOU. Those aren’t people – they’re organizations or companies. They represent far more people than just 50. And we’re not yet counting customers! How many of those do you have? And we’re not counting the family members of your employees? How many of those are there? See what I mean?

YOU have a direct impact on hundreds or thousands of people. The ripple effect of your growth – or lack of it – is enormous. I’m not trying to make you think more highly of yourself than you should. This isn’t an ego thing. It’s a business, mathematical thing. It’s quantifiable and real. If you don’t grow, all those people’s lives are negatively impacted. If you grow, they’re all positively impacted. Some more. Some less. But all of them are influenced by your behavior, your decisions and even your mood.

As a business person, if I could offer you a 24x ROI you’d chase me down and make me give you that opportunity because you’ve got no opportunity like that. Those 24 executives in your organization (your 8 direct reports and their 3 direct reports each) represent the 24x. You represent the investment. There’s one of you and 24 of them. Invest one dollar in yourself – one dollar set aside to make you better. One dollar to help you expand your connections and improve your perspective…and 24 people feel the impact.

If the #1 employee in the company isn’t worth an investment, then who is? And there’s another reason why you – the CEO – have the biggest ROI on personal development. CEOs and other top leaders are top performers. Have you ever taken an employee who is doing poorly and put them on a performance improvement plan (PIP)? Sure. We’ve all done it. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn’t. Because the person is in control of their own behavior. Some choose to listen and comply. Others choose not to. Assume a person complies. Their performance is so weak it’s put their job at risk. What kind of of an improvement – expressed as a percentage – do you need to see before they’re off the hot seat? Twenty five percent? Thirty five percent? Fifty percent? It’s likely a big improvement, else you wouldn’t have put them on a PIP.

You’re the CEO. You’re a top performer, a high achiever. A dollar invested in the person on a PIP may be wasted, or it may pay off slightly. It’ll be small, even if it helps the person turn their performance around. Is a 1% improvement in your performance equal to a double digit improvement in some other people on your team? YES, it is.

Take any thoroughbred race horse capable of running competitively at the track. Compare that horse with any run of the mill horse (the kind we see in pastures around here). If a trainer can get a 1% improvement in that race horse, do you suppose that’s infinitely more valuable than a trainer getting a 25% improvement in that pasture horse? There’s no comparison.

Invest in your own expansion. Grow. Get out of your protection mode. It’s not taking a chance, it’s taking an opportunity. It’s making sure you continue to grow and develop because all the people in your life need it. They deserve it.

Randy

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Leadership Challenges 003: Coming To Grips With Ourselves

Leadership Challenges 003: Coming To Grips With Ourselves

Leadership Challenges 003: Coming To Grips With Ourselves

Energy. That’s what it boils down to. What gives you energy? What robs you of energy?

Coming to grips with ourselves may come down to being able to accurately answer those two questions. Two other questions have been barometers for me in recent years. One, how do you want to spend your days? Two, who do you want to spend them with? But I can’t separate those questions from the energy questions because my energy is dramatically impacted by who I’m around and what I’m doing.

Randy

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Execution Matters - GROW GREAT Podcast Episode 4010

4010 Execution Matters

Execution Matters - GROW GREAT Podcast Episode 4010

‘Mean to’ don’t pick no cotton.   – southern saying

I’m a process guy. Systems.

Because it’s about the results. Not because I’m a fan of the gears, cogs and funnels. It’s about paying customers. Nothing else. Everything else is details.

“We intend to take our business to $60 million by the end of 2017,” says the CEO. That’s great. How?

What follows sounds like a strategy session. High level strategy. It lacks details. So the question continues.

How?

Plans matter. Pre-thinking does, too.

But they only matter if you can pull them off. The most brilliant plan poorly executed is a colossal waste of time and effort.

Today’s show was mostly prompted by too much time devoted to talking about reasons, purposes and intentions. Put ’em all in a bucket and stir. Pour out the bucket any way you want. I don’t much care about it because it only matters if the actions matter.

Gratitude Matters, Too

Before you conclude that I’m being a heartless jerk let me talk a bit about gratitude. We’ve all got a long list of things for which we should be grateful. My list just keeps growing no matter how badly I screw up. I have much to be thankful for.

Why does gratitude matter? Because I know how taking action can often lead us to think we’re all that, and then some. Too many people confuse motion and action with their own self-importance. And that can negatively impact effective execution. Effective execution is what matters! I should have executed a better title – EFFECTIVE execution matters.

Plan. Strategize. First, count your blessings. Be thankful. Be grateful. Show that gratitude to the people who have helped and supported you. For those of us who operate with a faith-priority, thank God.

Don’t get too full of yourself. This was brought home to me recently when I heard a very smart economist give a presentation, during which he said there are just 4 reasons why businesses experience trouble: the economy experiences trouble and your business mirrors the economy, your industry experiences a downturn and your company follows the industry, a black swan event (these can’t be predicted or forecasted) and you screwed up. That last one will force all of us to admit we’re mere mortals who sometimes get it wrong.

That’s why gratitude matters. Because humility is a virtue in spite of what some might tell us.

Focus On The Process

I’ve sometimes suffered ridicule for my focus on the process. Mostly by people who fail at gratitude. Funny how that works. The people most full of themselves focus squarely on results. Of course it’s always on their positive results. They love to be the “told you so” people. They also are the braggarts among us.

I’ll tell you why I think they’re wrong and why I choose not to surround myself with them. A person may take an aim to get rich (the result). How they get rich doesn’t much matter. They’re simply consumed with a strong desire to get rich. They define getting rich as earning a million bucks a year. Review people who earn a million bucks a year and you’ll see many different ways to get there. A million dollars earned in a single year. You’ll find some who did it one year, others who did it for many years and some who did it for decades. You’ll also find varied degrees of happiness or unhappiness among them. And you’ll find activities ranging from honest to dishonest, legal to illegal. There are lots of ways to get there. Focusing on the result doesn’t answer the question of how. Without an answer to how, we’re left without execution.

Let me make it even more clear. The results oriented folks love to offer meaningless advice. “Just make it happen,” they may say. “Do what you have to do,” is another popular one I hear. I jokingly say it’s like me telling somebody that the way to become a millionaire is to first get a million bucks.

How does that help?

It doesn’t.

I did a podcast episode about the importance of “the process” that I’d offer you to consider. It’s episode 4010 of my podcast at LeaningTowardWisdom.com. I’ll warn you that it’s a more personal podcast than this one, but I’m pretty proud of that episode.

Here’s why I think the process matters. The goal doesn’t answer the questions,

“How will you spend your days? With whom will you spend them?”

Most of us care about those things. Sure, I’ve met a few people who claimed they didn’t care — as long as they got what they wanted. Usually those were the very ones mostly focused on personal income. To each his own. I’m not really judging those folks. I’m just saying I choose not surround myself with them because I get no energy from them.

Create It. Grow It.

I selected the word execution because it’s so frequently used. In business. In sports. And people – mostly guys – love to use sports analogies. The contrarian in me would use a different word, but we all understand execution.

In keeping with the whole sports/business thing I can’t pass up this opportunity to use one of my all-time favorites. When Tampa Bay first got an NFL team John McKay was the coach. The team was awful. During a press conference a reporter asked the witty coach what he thought of the team’s execution. He quipped, “I’m all for it.” 😀

Execution is just another word for doing stuff. Well, more precisely it’s about doing stuff well. McKay’s original Buccaneer teams didn’t do much well.

Getting it right wasn’t easy for an expansion team in the NFL. In fact, they played 26 games before they ever experienced victory. Getting it right can take time. Mostly it takes doing what’s necessary day after day. It’s mostly determined by how you spend your days and with whom you spend it.

I only know the NFL from a fan’s perspective. I know it’s fundamentally exactly as McKay saw it. Blocking, tackling, running, passing and kicking. Every team is focused on winning. They all want to get it right. With multi-million dollar budgets you’d think more of them would – get it right. If focusing on the results did the trick, they’d all be competing for the Lombardi trophy. But it’s about more than that.

Execution.

It’s one thing to dream it up. It’s something completely different to make it happen. In business, I have found some people who were brilliant dreamers. They could come up with many wonderful, seemingly awesome ideas. A few of them even knew how to launch that idea into some form of reality, even if it was very small. And I love ideas, especially ones that I think are very good.

But growing an idea – growing a business – is a different thing. I’m fortunate to have been called some decent things during my career (we won’t talk about the bad names I’ve been called). Sometimes people have called me “strategic.” Some have called me “an operator.” Others have called me a man of “action.” All compliments. And all because for as long as I can remember I’ve embraced the process – a process that was important to me. A focus on how I spend my days and with whom.

In a future episode we may talk about the difference in creators and growers, but for now I’d like to provoke you to think about your work — the stuff you actually do. I’m not judging what you do, or don’t do. I just want you to consider what you’re doing and ask a few questions that may help you clarify it.

First, I’m going to assume you’re sitting in a chief leadership role. Since I mostly serve C-level leaders, CEOs in particular, I’m focusing on you because you’re the Number One Employee. The buck may stop with you, but the momentum or traction begins with you, too.

What Can You Alone Do?

Make a list of the things that only YOU can do. Because of the seat that you occupy, it’s a chore that can’t done by anybody else. Go ahead. Write it down. It may be a long, long list…or a very short one. That doesn’t matter. Just list it. Don’t sweat about explaining it. As long as you can read the list and understand, that’s good enough. I don’t even want you to be concerned with the length of the list.

What Can Somebody Do?

I know, I know. I just asked what you alone can do, now I’m asking you to look at that same list and figure out what somebody else other than you can do. No, I’ve not lost my mind. Humor me. Look at the list and think of somebody on your team who can do the things on the list. No, I don’t expect you to figure out somebody for each task, but I do expect you figure out somebody who can handle something! Maybe three things.

While you’re at it, go ahead and write down the name of the person by the item. That person who you think could handle the chore. Let me add one small caveat – they can do it well enough to succeed. Don’t get stuck on thinking, “I can do it better myself.” The challenge is to figure out if the task can be successfully executed by anybody other than YOU.

What Do I Avoid Doing Because I Hate It?

This is a different list. Well, maybe. Write down the things you avoid doing because you dread doing it. These might be things on your original “only I can do it” list, but they probably aren’t. These are probably things you don’t ever do because you just hate doing them. Go ahead. Write them down. I don’t care why, and honestly, you don’t either – do you? You just know you despise doing them. Good enough. Make the list.

What Do I Always Do Because I Love It?

Now, let’s flip it upside down and list the things you love doing because you just love it. Who knows or cares why? It doesn’t matter. And it doesn’t matter if somebody else can do it. Are there things on this list that also made that original “only I can do it” list? Maybe. I’d even go so far as to say probably. That’s okay. Write them down.

Who On My Team Loves Doing What I Hate?

Now it’s going to get a bit tougher – maybe. Think about your team. Think about what you hate. Maybe you hate what you’re not good at. Maybe you hate what you’ve been good at, but you’re sick of it at this phase of your career. No matter, match up the stuff you hate doing with the people on your team who you know love doing that exact thing. If you can’t be sure, then guess who based on what you know of them. So, you’re writing down who on your team loves doing the thing you hate, or who you THINK may love doing the thing you hate.

Let’s stay right here for the moment. I’m assuming you’ve got names that you’re pretty set with – names of people you know love doing what you hate. Question: do you have them doing what they love? Are they doing those things you hate, but the things they love? If not, why not?

I’m really sick of the bus metaphor made famous by Jim Collins…and I’d love to go just one week without hearing some corporate executive use it, but boy has it permeated the business world. Why do you have the wrong people on the wrong seats on the bus?

Stick with me. Stay right here on this question – Who On My Team Loves Doing What I Hate? Think about your own hatred and dread. Think about how you feel when faced with doing something you hate. I’m not talking about some one-off kind of thing like negotiating a long-term lease. You may have to do it and endure it once every few years. I’m talking more about ongoing activity that you know is vital (some more so, some less so) to your company’s success. It’s stuff that just must get done. And it must get done well. But you don’t want to be the one doing it. It’s okay. You’re the big cheese. You can love what you love and hate what hate. That’s why I have this sign my daughter bought me…

ItIsWhatItIs

Now, think about what you love. You may not know why you love it. It’s likely you have a more keen awareness of why you hate what you hate. Step outside yourself and imagine somebody who can feel like you do when you love doing something. Except they feel that way doing what you hate. I know, it’s hard, right? Well, try.

Go back over your list of things you hate and revise it if you want. Add names. Take names off of it. These are the names of people who love doing what you hate.

Go back over your original “only I can do” list and adjust the stuff that’s on there that you hate. I guarantee you’ve got at least one, probably more. Remove those from your original “only I can do” list and just keep them on this “who on my team loves doing” list. Now, before we move on. Commit to delegating that task to that person. Do whatever you must to get it off your list and onto theirs. You owe it to yourself and to them. Stop doing what you hate. And stop keeping other people from doing what they love.

No, we’re not done yet. Not quite.

Who On My Team Loves Doing What I Love?

These are your kindred spirits. You think so anyway. It may be good for you, but it’s how most of us roll. Birds of a feather and all that.

List the names of the people alongside the list of things you love to do. I’m betting you’re able to come up with those names faster and easier. I’m also betting there’s more of them. Funny how that works, huh?

And as you’re writing down these names you’re probably thinking of yourself, too. I can hear that little voice in your head saying, “Joe is good at it. I’m better, but Joe’s pretty good.” Because it’s what you love doing you’re comparing how well you do it versus the other people on your team. You’re competitive like that. It’s okay. I get it.

Number One Employees Deserve Better

As the chief leader I’m here to tell you that you’re too busy with stuff that doesn’t matter. I’ve yet to see a CEO who isn’t pressed for time. Or one whose schedule isn’t severely packed. But the CEO or other top leader is exactly the one (or ones) who need the most margin in their life in order to serve the others in the company. They just don’t make the time.

They have the time. Too often they just choose not to take it. Instead, they’re doing the things they love. And sometimes the things they hate. It’s not for lack of motion or action, but too frequently it is for lack of effective execution. Today’s word is “hustle.” We love the word because it denotes energy, tenacity and doing, doing, doing. Sadly, we confuse running fast with getting somewhere. It’s possible to run fast without getting anywhere. Leaders are doing it all over world.

As the number one employee you deserve to make an investment in yourself. Your own growth and your own leadership have a ripple effect that will impact your organization. For good. Or bad. You choose.

Refuse to take the time. Refuse to make the investment in yourself. You’ll pay. So will your team. So will your business.

See yourself as the valuable resource you are. Take the time. Make the investment. Your growth will become your team’s growth and your company’s growth. It can’t be helped. It can’t be accomplished any other way.

Employees Deserve Better

Your direct reports and all other employees deserve the best leadership available. That’s your job. Be that leader or be replaceable. Again, you choose.

The execution – effective execution – hinges on people doing the things they’re great at. I know, I’ve not talked about judging people on skills. That’s because I started with where our hearts at. And maybe it’s not 100% accurate, but most of us tend to be good at – or we have the capacity to get really good at – the things we love. Rarely do we develop a knack for something we dread or hate. So I’m going with that premise. If you’ve got an odd situation where you, or somebody on your team, is great at something they hate, then brace yourself for a short-term effective execution of that thing. Even if people are great at something they hate, they won’t keep doing it for long. Don’t count on it for your long-term strategy.

People talk alot these days about employee engagement. I’ve got two simple strategies for it: a) give people work they love to do and b) talk with people. Do more of both and it’ll work.

Conclusion

So what does all this mean? It means if you get execution down – if you figure out the best way to spend your days and the best people to spend your days with – then you’ll achieve more. Period.

It requires a boldness and courage I don’t see nearly often enough. Too many big bosses are busy behaving the way they think big bosses should behave. They think they’re supposed to have all the answers. They grow too full of themselves. They over value what they bring  and they under value what others bring. They develop unrealistic beliefs about their success – or their company’s success. And sometimes unrealistic beliefs about the market or the competition. In short, sometimes the best of us can grow delusional.

Today, it’s about a reality check. It’s a human heart reality check designed to make you think about your own work flow, systems and processes. Dig deeper than I have and figure out what’s working well, what’s not working at all and what may just need some tweaking. Start by taking a much closer look at how you’re spending your time as the chief leader. Ask yourself if somebody might be able to do that job…perhaps better! Consider some possibilities you may have never considered. Because effective execution matters. Frankly, not much else matters because at the end of your career it’s all going to have been a matter of how you spent your time and who you spent it with. Make the most of it.

Randy.Black

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Tenacious & Snarly (The Art Of Being Tough To Compete Against) - GROW GREAT Podcast Episode 4009

4009 Tenacious & Snarly (The Art Of Being Tough To Compete Against)

Tenacious & Snarly (The Art Of Being Tough To Compete Against) - GROW GREAT Podcast Episode 4009

Years of being a hockey fan (and coaching a bit of it) provoked me more and more toward tenacity. It also incorporated the word “snarly” into my vocabulary.

Back in the 1980’s while running a retailing company I first sat down and wrote this fragmented sentence as a mission statement to create the culture I most wanted:

To become a sleek, highly maneuverable, viciously competitive retail company delivering customer service that is 2nd to none

A decade later I took those same words to another retailing company. The words were important. They expressed and evoked emotions that I thought were urgent and important. My mind hasn’t changed.

All that verbiage points to some of the most necessary ingredients for business success – or higher business success. Name the problem and I’ll make application.

HR? Sales? Profits? Operational inefficiencies? Cultural issues? Employee engagement? Leadership transition? Whatever?

The higher the tenacity, the higher the performance. It’s not the same as resilience. Tenacity is an offensive weapon. Resilience is defensive.

As for snarly-ness, it’s driven by the passion and need to succeed. The strong desire to win and kick the teeth down the throat of anybody or anything that would hinder victory.

All that language reeks of action. It’s a lot of doing. Doing that starts in your head because the main battle ground for all this is in between our ears.

I intentionally phrased that mission statement with that beginning…”to become…” It’s something we could start today. It’s something we’d never be able to walk away from, saying we had completed it.

Relentless Pursuit

That’s the deal. That sums it up best for me.

So let’s wrestle this down and make some applications. I want to go from the outside in because of all the noise out there. I know it’s noisy in your head, but that little 4″ screen in your hand, and all the other screens in your life produce an avalanche of noise unlike anything we’ve seen before. The net floods us with data, information and opinion that is often indiscernible from reality and truth. Do this. Do that. Don’t do this. Don’t do that. Follow these 4 steps. No, follow just these 2 steps. Go left. Go right. It’s black. No, it’s white.

Your relentless pursuit of tenacity and snarly-ness starts with shutting up and shutting down all the crap entering your world. Now before you think I’m suggesting you not listen to people, let me clarify.

I’m on the phone with a friend and we’re talking about a variety of things, both business and personal. I reiterate something I’ve believed and tried to practice for a very long time. It has to do with selling. And building meaningful relationships. It’s a sequence that begins with us getting acquainted with somebody. We migrate from being strangers or unknowns to each other to where we know something of each other. You know my name and a bit about me. I know your name and a bit about you.

Next, we have to move toward safety. That is, you have to feel safe around me. I have to feel safe around you. If we can’t get to that spot, the relationship or connection won’t happen. There are plenty of people in your life who are known to you, but you don’t feel safe around them. You know their name. They know your name. No matter, you feel ill at ease for some reason. Maybe it’s because you feel they’ve got some hidden (or not so hidden) agenda. Maybe it’s because their personality bristles you and makes you uncomfortable. Maybe it’s because your communication styles are so opposite you just can’t relate. For some reason, we have all these known people in our lives who bring us no value because we just can’t get to a safe place with them.

Keep in mind — and think of all the people in your life who aren’t known by you — but you feel safe with them. Authors, speakers, experts…they all fall into that category. You know them, but they may not know you. Because they crank out content that you enjoy, or that helps you, you’ve become acquainted with them. You feel safe with having them “speak” to you in whatever way they do that (books, speeches, blog posts, videos, webinars, podcasts, etc.). Okay, so far so good. Or is it.

Experts are nice, but who is really an expert. And who do you listen to? Who should you listen to? Why should you listen to them? Those are GINORMOUS questions that have big and varied answers. No, I’m not going to try to answer them here, except to give you some things to consider and think about. YOU have to decide for yourself. You’ll hear that theme throughout today’s show because it’s at the heart of tenacity and snarly-ness. This is YOUR tenacity and snarly-ness we’re talking about so you have to own it. It’s got nothing to do with me or anybody else. It’s all you!

The distraction of the Internet ruins tenacity and snarly-ness because for every expert who says go right, others say go left. For every guru who wears French cuffs and $3000 custom made suits there are other gurus who wear jeans and a hoodie. There are gurus and experts who use Uber exclusively and others who drive Bentleys. How can you listen to them all? You can’t. Well, you can listen, but your mind will be trashed trying to figure out a path with all these incongruent messages coming at you.

“I’m my own man,” says the guy in the corner office. I’ve heard that before. Quickly I’ve come to learn the corner office guy or gal has demons in their head just like everybody else. Sometimes more so. The stakes are higher. So is the pressure. Beware the man or woman who declares, “I decide for myself.” They’re listening to something or somebody. Sometimes they’re as confused as anybody about all the voices of advice entering their brain.

This is where it turns inward. This is where your world view and your view of yourself matters.

When I was a teenager I went through a phase, like most teens, where I got really tired of being worried about what people thought. My teen angst wasn’t rebellious toward behavior though. Mine was a drive against vanity and status. I was sick of seeing people think somebody was better because they had cool clothes or cool cars, or lived in the cool neighborhood. I just didn’t care. It wasn’t a judgmental thing for me. It was purely a substance over style thing for me. I had nice, even cool clothes. I had a cool car, too. But I was blessed.

One word summed it up for me during my teen years: pretense.

I hated pretense. Still do.

I’m also a zig zag guy. When everybody is zigging or people want me to zig…I gravitate toward zagging. Just because. Freud would likely have a field day with me (and you, too, huh?).

It’s why during most of my adult career I was the guy in the corner office. Compliance isn’t my strong suit. 😉

Compliance Is Driven By Listening To Others, Not Yourself

Lose weight. Get cosmetic surgery to fix that nose. You introverts, become extroverts. Blah, blah, blah.

Here’s what the world is telling us – be something you aren’t. Fix yourself.

Sure, lose weight if you must to improve your health. Growing great is all about improving so we can be the best version of ourselves. Emphasis is on being ourselves though.

Embrace who you really are and go all in on it. It’s crazy hard because we see people who are nothing like us and admire them so. The introvert looks longingly at the gregarious fellow holding forth in the group and wishes he could be more like that. STOP IT.

You’re not him. He’s not you. Get comfortable with who and what you are — and become the best version of yourself.

Why is that important? Because if you’re not true to yourself you can’t be tenacious or snarly. You can’t win in the market – whether that market is your home or your office or the world at large. You just can’t win without being tough to play against.

Be tenacious. Be snarly. Be tough to compete against. If the world is going to beat you down, make it tough on the world to win. Develop that habit and you’ll win a lot more than you’ll lose. It’s not about winning all the time (nobody does that), but it is about winning much of the time. People determined to grow great do that more often than not. Join us.

Randy

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This One Word Ruins Your Leadership - GROW GREAT Podcast Episode 4008

4008 This One Word Ruins Your Leadership

This One Word Ruins Your Leadership

He’s the guy at the front of the room. Leading the meeting.

Around the room sit all his direct reports. All eleven of them.

It’s a half-day meeting that’s been planned for months. It happens about three times a year — a meeting whose sole aim is to “get down to it,” according to the CEO. He means it’s a meeting he hopes will foster the most candid conversations possible.

The meeting starts off slowly, as so many meetings do. They go around the room sharing whatever they’d like – a trite, common way folks start meetings. I’ve never understood the strategy. Here you are, at a prime time to get the meeting off to a great start and immediately you stomp things down with a 3rd grade show ‘n tell tactic. I watch the energy dissipate increasingly as the the exercise gets underway. People are sharing the most innocuous things possible. You can tell they’re prepared for this little exercise. You can also tell nobody is getting anything from it. Certainly not more energy.

After 15 excruciating minutes it’s over. There’s a slide deck prepared by the CEO to update the team on information they’ve likely looked at for weeks now. Each executive knows this information backwards and forwards. That lasts 15 minutes. This is the kind of meeting these folks have endured more times than any of them can remember. It’s corporate, organized and lackluster. But nobody expects anything else.

And I’m saddened to realize that. “Nobody expects anything else,” my voice in my head mutters repeatedly.

The CEO is a brilliant business guy. He knows his stuff. Everybody respects his business acumen. And his experience in the industry. Like many CEO’s he’s often preoccupied. He can seem disengaged. Catch him at the right time, which most direct reports will tell you is “most of the time,” and you’ll see it.

At my suggestion he’s asked each direct report to bring one-big-thing to the meeting. As much as I enjoy working many different things, from many different angles – I’ve learned that focus on a single thing at a time is extremely powerful. And tough to do. Partly I suggested this to focus the group, but the bigger motive I had was to foster the CEO’s goal of getting down to it. When you have to narrow it down to a single thing, that cuts to the chase.

The assignment wasn’t complex, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. Bring one-big-thing that’s the biggest elephant in the room at the moment. Not something down the road. Something present right now (that was also strategic to force people to be in the moment). It could be anything – a challenge, an obstacle, an opportunity, a worry, a specific problem…anything else.

“Don’t force it,” I told the CEO before the meeting. Let the game come to you. Ask for people to share if they’d like. And if they don’t want to, don’t get angry. The objective was to first share, then to foster collaboration among the group to help support the person with their insights and counsel.

When the CEO got to this part of the agenda he did well in presenting it. And he displayed patience instead of his usual antsy-ness. Within seconds one of his more seasoned direct reports volunteered to break the ice. About 6 weeks ago he had a health scare. He passed out in his office and folks feared he was having a heart attack. They called an ambulance and whisked him off to the local hospital. He spent one night in the hospital, running all the usual tests. No heart attack, but he was suffering exhaustion. MRI’s and other tests showed elevated cholesterol, but no serious life-threatening issues. He took 2 more days off, but was back at work sooner than the CEO even expected. Typical.

He addressed the group with a story of how he had wound up in the hospital. At least it was how he thought he wound up there. He talked of his family and his co-workers. The success of the organization was forefront on his mind. You could tell he was proud of their collective work. He delivered a heart-felt sermon of sorts to his co-workers thanking them and encouraging them to make whatever changes might improve their own mental and physical health. “I’m not bringing up a problem so much as I’m delivering a warning and asking you all to consider yourself as a resource. Not just for the company, but for all the other people in your life.”

He delivered his thoughts with enough emotion to stir everybody in the room, ending it with a challenge. “What you are doing – what are you going to do – to insure that the resource that is YOU is protected and properly invested?”

There was a pause. Everybody’s wheels were turning in their head, no doubt thinking of about their life and all the people who depended on them. I’m thinking to myself, “This is great. These people are really going to get going now.” Talk about getting down to it. Man, it was going to happen.

Then one word destroyed the moment. It wasn’t a word that was uttered. It was a word to describe the leader, the CEO. Now I can’t judge thoughts, but like you, I can judge actions. And words.

Before the pause grew too uncomfortable, the CEO said, “Who wants to go next?”

Just like that (snap your fingers), the moment passed. Energy left the room. Shocked back to the reality that this meeting wasn’t about people, but it was strictly business. Key metrics. Performance standards. Future projects. Current projects. Budgets.

Everybody made the same conclusion and assigned a single word to the moment, ascribing this word to the CEO.

DISINTERESTED.

That’s how you can ruin your leadership instantly. Be disinterested.

Randy

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